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Mixed emotions. I don’t know if I will welcome this day as an addition to my life. Many are elated when their day comes. Anticipating and excited of what the day holds them. Nonstop greetings of family and friends. And of course, nonstop teasing on treating everyone.

I welcomed this day with delight, but not so much. Actually, I’m not really contented with what is really happening with my life now. I’ve got so many frustrations regarding my career and another day in my life is a day less to make it happen.

But in terms on keeping and managing relationship, I’m too blessed to have my beloved significant other beside me. I could not ask for more. Complementing is the same as being complete or an addition to complete something, and that is what my significant other did to me. She did not doubt or leave me even if I’m such a pain in the ass sometimes! What I lack of success in my career, is complemented by having the greatest companion one could ever had. I’m so grateful to have her that I unceasingly included her in my prayers of gratitude everyday.

The mighty Lord might be annoyed at my prayers because I attended mass last night for Ash Wednesday and later I will attend mass again with my special someone to celebrate this special day in my life when I commemorate the day that the Lord gave life to me.

Prayers of benediction and gratitude will be the theme of this day for me. Thanks to all the people and friends who greeted me and lastly to my family and relatives, I really appreciated how all of you mold me and instill values and for all the good things that I experienced.

Carpe Diem!!!

Forming friendship in the workplace is sometimes tricky. As much as you would like to bond with different kinds of people, complications starts to arise.

 

Being careless with your words in the office may lead you into something nasty and you would not want to create havoc in your peaceful nest.

 

If you want to avoid certain disputes, you should learn to refrain these 5 topics and keep your mouth shut:

 

 

1. Money

 

It is not ethical to discuss money matters in the workplace. One should not divulge how much you earn from your co-workers. You will surely invite envy and jealousy right in front of your doorstep. You will always hear this kind of gossip where one worker lent money to another and the other refuses to pay when time comes. Fighting will surely erupt when money matters are being talked about in the office.

 

2. Religion

 

Personal beliefs caused wars over several centuries and definitely you don’t want to happen it in your own office. Clearly, you should refrain in discussing this kind of issue. Different personal spiritual beliefs contradict with one another and several cultures cannot agree which one is more superior than the other.

 

3. Personal Problems

 

When you come to work, it is inevitable that you will keep your mouth shut about the problem with your personal life like sibling rivalry, couple issues, family feuds etc.

 

These matters should not be brought up in the office because in the first place, it will not help your co-workers with your personal issues do their duties. You as a person will seem to be vulnerable to some kind of attacks when trying times comes.

 

4. Politics

 

Everyone has a political preference and when it comes to political issues, strong opinions abounds. Differences in political opinions always, and I should strongly stress this, ALWAYS created vocal arguments. We don’t want another casualty in the office because of one lousy argument because of politics.

 

5. Relationship

It is ok to talk about personal relationship in the office but not too much. Who wanted to hear about your own sex life unless you’re a maniac or wanted to hear the latest scandal.